Better than yesterday.

Different density of the hot and cold air resulted this phenomenon.As all of u can see, tis is wad my site looks likeee.

I been busy, busy with internship.Plus i have to work on Saturday which left only Sunday for me to rest.Since today is a holiday and i'd nothing on schedule, might as well i spend some time updating my blog which has been left out for several months now.A lot happened since then and i don't know where to start.OW YA..THIS YEAR RAYA ROCKS.I get to visit most of frens.They're doin fine, some already further their studies, some working and earn a good salary well at least good for my age.Some getting married,some engage and we share the joy together. At the same time i also get to meet new frens from work. They're a bit senior than me but i get to be treated like a grownups. I share my experience in college they share their thoughts bout life,marriage,working,money,hobbies and families. One of em even helped me improve my guitar skills and provide materials for me to learn.Construction site is their everyday playground,they're covers wit mud when it rains and breath dust when the scorching sun is above their heads and noises from the heavy construction machinery is a rhythm from their anthem. Its just how they make a living and contributing to society. Ah Tan.This guy can't even read or write.He didn't even finish his SPM.He looks late 50's when actually he is in his late 40's,have fewer teeth then most of the guys in his age,his skin can't get any thicker and darker. He's a general worker with 30 years of experience and always have the solution for all problems. If i have questions bout construction on "HOW" i go to him. If questions bout "WHY" i go directly to consultant.
"TO KNOW AND NOT TO DO IS NOT TO KNOW,TO DO AND NOT TO KNOW IS NOT TO DO" it's their fav quote.

A DAD'S BLESSING.

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound religious book*, with the young man's name embossed in gold. Angry, he raised his voice to his father and said "With all your money, you give me a book?* and stormed out of the house, leaving the book*.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.

When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search through his father's important papers and saw the still new religious book*, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened it* and began to turn the pages. And as he did, a car key dropped from the back of the book*. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God’s* blessings and answers to our prayers because they do not arrive exactly as we have expected?

Don’t let time pass you by before you learn to appreciate your loved ones.

UPDATING MY BLOG JAMBULLY.

Long time dee i didn't post any new article.It's been a while.I'm doin my internship now dee, at MJC batu kawah.I finally choose here because it offers everything i wanted to learn.Detach house,school,mosque,STP,high rise condos, pavement,they got it. Been to bali last 2 weeks with family although with all the H1N1 disease, we are lucky not to have one.FIUH.Even though i did get a fever during the vacation.huhu.It saturday and i'm still on my desk in my office...MJC...Ooooo MJC..saturday oso working,full day sumore!!haiz~..Now i have to get used of wearing formal on saturday.i DIDN'T LIKE IT AT ALL,but i have to.BUT I still get to keep my long hair tho.haha. Doin site work is tiring, i can't stress more on that.The first few days, seriously i collapsed by the time reach home.but after some time i kind of get used to it.i been goin to site almost everyday.eccept for today,becuz i was at the site full day yesterday checking defects for the 3 stories."checking defects" trust me it's harder than it sound..Because of the gawai holiday,my internship starts a bit late than the peninsular.Staff at office is very helpfull esspecially the clerk kak yanti and gagarin..At first, everybody was like looking down on me.I didn't blame them for that.i mean i'm aware that i'm just a practical student that is just seeking for knowledge for 7 month.Only after i finish my assignment successfully and corrected mr kiasu english spelling mistakes then they starts to ask my name and dare to starts a conversation. Mr kiasu also been quite nice to me these few days .He starts to make jokes today sumore. My sv is a very busy man.But the good thing is they are other ppl there to assist me and i can go site visit every time i want without having to inform my SV.I oso made a new fren here MR AU who is doing the same things as i'm doin.checking defects. Today i got nothing to do, that is y i got time to write tis post.huhu. Next Monday i have to type in the defects in excel and past the soft copy to MR AU. Only now that i know how to make pavement, the ingredients and equiptments. It's easy when u think about it.It's too good to be true if i get the chance to construct a road and name it after me. "Wirra's Rd".In the middle got toll, and the money straight away go in my pocket.RIch3.okla.Until then,tats all for now. love wirra..kahkahkah.

Push myself to the limit.

2 more weeks left for study week.1 week for study week and then final exam. After that then internship comes. I can’t wait for that, the things that I had learnt about being a civil engineer all this while are going to be implemented during the 8 month of industrial internship. It is during this 8 month that all the things in the classroom make sense. In other words my studies for a degree started this Jun. I have to say this semester is so fast. Very busy too. But then I still participate in a lot of things this semester. HUHU. OK..see you near future. BYE…

SINGAPURA, JB AND MELAKA.

Holiday fly by so fast. I just travel back from Singapore, JB, Melacca and KL. Now back in UTP. Life is so good but I can’t run away from the piles of work that meets the dead line next week. It’s been so long seen my last post. I’ve been quite busy lately. Gosh!! it’s already past mid semester…like I said time fly so fast. Soon, Internship. Talking about internship, I have already got 3 offers but haven’t decided yet which to go for. The 1st company didn’t gave any allowance, the 2nd ones offer RM500 a month and the 3rd ones propose to give me RM 200 a month. Do I have to wait for the other 2 companies I applied or do I just pick the 2nd ones which offer the highest allowance? hehe.. I decide lets wait for the reply letter from the other 2 companies. After that, then we’ll see the highest bid. LET THE MONEY TALK. I didn’t go back Kuching this semester break, because I know this is the last semester I’m able to explore peninsular. Final year will not have time for vacation like tis. Luckily mom brought my passport for me to enter Singapore last monday. Fiuh~. Haaa~ talking about Singapore, very nice experience thou, get to see nice buildings, nice people and not to forget nice chicks. hehe. I walk along the orchard road with my sunglass. Of course, in Singapore, especially in orchard road where everybody dresses to impress you have to look good. So I put on my sunglass to look a bit cool. It match with my hush puppies t-shirt, short and not to forget my crocs. I won’t go anywhere without one. As I was walking minding my own business, suddenly one Singaporean with ah-beng’s hairstyle, wearing a black suit approached me. He introduced his name, gave me his card and said that he works for a modeling company (i-MODEL international). His company is looking for hot guys and he is asking me to walk to an interview at his company, become a model for HugoBoss. At 1st I was shocked. I mean being my first time in Singapore and bumped like that in the face. Who wouldn’t? I mean I already noe I’m hot. hehe.(I’m Malaysian and we are all hot wat~ and that is wad the Malaysian look like~) Singapore’s population is too small that hot guys are rare species. HAHA. I told him that I’m actually from KL and only occasionally come to S’pore. That dude insists to have my phone number and asked me to call the company whenever I come to Singapore. Haha. Singaporean bastard. I’ve thought much about my career or wad I’m going to do when I grow up and Modeling is not one of em. Something more technical will do and part time music lover. I like money, in fact I want to be a millionaire by my 30’s or maybe if possible 20’s, but wad good of the dollars if you don’t have life and time to spend it.(There are things money can’t buy) I learnt this from my dad. In Singapore you can just look around, nothing to shop there, even if they are, it’s damn expensive. I went there wit 40 dollars in my pocket finish it all to buy books and magazines. Better go BALI hehe. After Singapore, next stop will be Melacca.( Rumahku Museumku..HAHA..) See the historical elements there plus visit an old fren over there,in UITM Lendu (a bit like lundu..haha the most obsolete place I’ve ever experienced. Seriously, “survivors” could have shoot over there HAHA). Accompanied by Farha. TQ Farha. Ate seafood for dinner and karaoke after that. Supposedly one more person should be joining us but she turned down my invitation. HHmm.. Sorry Azim I tried my best. hehe.

This is how Intelligent men identify women.

AND THIS ARE THE 10 REASONS WHY INTELLIGENT GUYS SUCK AT WOMEN.

If you want to continue suck at women, tis article is not for you.
Highly recommended by WIRRA.

Reason #1: They're wrong, but they can't or won't see it or admit it.

I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations.
And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they're WRONG?
They find a new situation... one that fits their strength. They know they'll be right next time, so they just walk away... knowing that it won't be long before they're right again.
(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy them... more on that later.)
Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE.
There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better.
It only takes "failing" with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern... and realize that something isn't working.
Solution? Think harder.
A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... so he just keeps thinking harder.
But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.
Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard thing for a "smart guy".
Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.
Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion:
I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.
Try that on for a self-defeating idea.

Reason #2: They're blind and arrogant.

In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an "obviously less intelligent person" before trying it.
Let me ask you a question:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50... but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life?
It's an interesting question.
Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around... but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals...
But now let me ask you:
If you'd like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn't very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?
There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them.
Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach... once it's examined closely.
If you've been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes.
Look around.
Learn from some "dumb" guys... and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.

Reason #3: Poor Social Skills.

It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don't GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.
It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would take to learn them.
In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.
Social skills are just that... SKILLS.
They're not social INFORMATION.
They're not social THEORIES.
They're social SKILLS.
And you don't get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.
Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.

Reason #4: They psych themselves out.

Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...
They come up with all the reasons why everything WON'T WORK when it comes to women and dating.
They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail...
They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.
THEY DON'T EVEN TRY.
Now, if you've thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?
I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?
It's sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it comes to the REAL WORLD... and success with women.
Because smart guys don't UNDERSTAND women, and they don't UNDERSTAND what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They're wrong before they even start figuring!
Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won't work in this area of your life leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.
You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.

Reason #5: They seek only "informational solutions."

What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out?
He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the problem.
MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.
Information is the friend of a smart guy.
Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the internet and search for how to eliminate it.
Don't know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147.
Don't know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary.
MORE INFORMATION solves the problem.
So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women?
They want MORE INFORMATION.
They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE... or one more magic concept.
Well what if there were a situation in life where the "get more information" strategy actually made things WORSE?
How would you even know that it was making things worse?
Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It's not.
But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn't going to help you very much.
You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff!
You need to look at the REAL problem... the ROOT of the problem.
When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have MORE than enough "information".
Smart guys often use "more information" to distract them from TAKING ACTION.
I've heard this referred to as "Creative Avoidance".
Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life.
Good, thank you.

Reason #6: They focus on logic instead of emotion.

NEWS JUST IN: Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.
Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL.
So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman?
EXACTLY!
They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.
I'm shaking my head right now...
Smart men try to engage women in LOGICAL conversations and interactions because that's where THEY feel comfortable... not knowing that they're SHOOTING THEMSELVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!
Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical conversation.
When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head.
Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.
If you don't know what I'm talking about, keep reading. You need more help than I thought.

Reason #7: They're not used to the challenge of the moment.

Smart people usually have time to THINK about things.
If you're taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers.
If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you've figured it out.
If you're trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it's fixed.
Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a LITTLE bit of time to prepare and show off their "good sides" in most situations.
Not so with women...
If you don't know what to do at every step along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly.
Women have an AMAZING "He doesn't get it" radar system.
Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the "get its" from the "don't get its".
And if you don't get it, then you're going to fail one of these tests VERY quickly.
But the worst part is that you won't ever KNOW that you were being tested... OR that you failed.
Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex EMOTIONAL and COMMUNICATION challenges in the moment... and especially the "women and dating" kind.
One of they keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly.
But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment.


Reason #8: They think that doing "nice" things is the "smart way."

OK, let me ask you a trick question:
If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a "smart" way of preparing:
1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be "wowed".
2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.
3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.
OK, time's up. Which did you choose?
Now, I already mentioned that this was a TRICK question.
The answer is NONE OF THE ABOVE.
But WHY?
These three options all seemed logical, right?
I mean, why WOULDN'T you want to show up with her favorite flowers?
Why WOULDN'T you want to talk about her favorite places to travel?
Why WOULDN'T you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?
Go with me here...
Smart guys think that they're being CLEVER when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers... and bringing them to the FIRST DATE.
Right?
In their minds, they're thinking "I'm going to be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going to show up with the flowers that I KNOW she loves... and she's going to see them and like me more because of it".
Makes sense... good math, right?
Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these "smart" guys make is not realizing that it doesn't actually take a smart person to think like this!
In fact, ANY jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman's ass.
And guess what?
WOMEN KNOW THIS!
And guess what else?
EVERY WUSSBAG DOES THIS STUFF.
An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he's being such the charmer by using this "thoughtful" approach...
...and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another Wussy who's trying to MANIPULATE her.
Ouch. Another blow to intelligence.

Reason #9: Always needing to be the expert.

Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be "right"?
Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn't shut their "smart mouths"?
Over the last few years helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again...
Smart guys don't like to be "beginners" at ANYTHING.
They don't like the idea of screwing up... especially if others are watching.
They want to maintain this "smart guy" image of themselves... so they try to always be "The Expert" at whatever they do.
Instead of saying "Hey, you know what? I'm a beginner at this... how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?"... and instead of being totally OK with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to LEARN...
...they won't risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they're beginners... so they wind up ultimately FAILING.
MORE NEWS JUST IN: It's OK to be a beginner.

Reason #10: They can't deal with fear and other emotions.

A smart guy's STRENGTH is his MIND.
His WEAKNESS is often his EMOTIONS.
Smart guys are often IMMOBILIZED by FEAR.
Totally stopped.
FROZEN.
And since many smart guys aren't comfortable dealing with things they're not good at, they just repress or RUN away from fear.
Many men would rather DIE in lonely isolation than admit that they don't know how to deal with their emotions... or, GOD FORBID, ask for help!
Hey, I went for YEARS like this.
I know what it's like.
But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even MASTER his emotions (even fear)... if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it.
If this is you, then do yourself a big favor... take the time. Take the effort.
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks of you... it doesn't matter.
What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do FOR YOU.
...I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life.
Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet...
But I don't think mamma raised no fool.
And it always bothered the hell out of me that even though I was so good at figuring things out, I couldn't figure WOMEN out.
Something tells me that you know what I'm talking about.
Well, after beating my head against the wall for a few years... trying all kinds of crazy "logical" stuff... I finally got the "bright" idea to start studying guys who were "naturally" good with women.
Of course, I found out that you could be both NOT SMART, and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN at the same time.
I also learned that you can be SMART and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN too.
By carefully studying what the "naturals" did with women... and learning how they "thought" about the topic, I began to realize that success with women wasn't entirely LOGICAL.
Much of what I learned was very tough for me to accept... because my logical brain just didn't want to buy into it.
One thing I saw was guys pushing women away from them... and having the women then chase them in response.
Made no sense at all.
I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes about them to their faces... and then watched those women become "little girls" in response... unable to maintain their composure, and therefore unable to maintain their manipulative power...
It took me quite a long time, but I continued to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until I personally figured out how to approach women in any situation... get any woman's number I wanted anytime I wanted... date any type of woman I wanted...
...and most importantly, GET RID of that "empty" feeling that I carried around my whole life because I didn't know how to attract women.

BY David DeAngelo
Gud luck nerdy.!!